Just Keep Moving – Lessons Learned on the Job Hunt

“It is your work in life that is the ultimate seduction. “ Pablo Picasso

Tonight, I would like to share some of the things I’ve learned while searching for jobs, and make some friendly recommendations for anyone either in the hunt for, or already in an entry-level position.

I’ve never been one to make New Years Resolutions (can you imagine anything more arbitrary?), but this year I decided to jot down a few regarding my professional development. Here’s a few that made the list:

  • Make more mistakes. Fail more often.

You’re either thinking (a) this guy is so full of himself that he doesn’t think he makes mistakes or (b) why the hell would someone want to fail more often? Let me explain! It’s nothing new to point out flaws in the modern education system, but let’s look at one: the absence of failure. With all the extra help offered from teachers, tutors, & classmates, it’s almost impossible to fail. Failure is an immensely important part of any serious development for two reasons. First, if you set audacious goals (which you should!), you will experience occasional (if not frequent) failures. Second, failures offer the best opportunities to learn. So set bold goals and learn from your failures: your professional growth will exponentially exceed that of your risk-adverse peers.

“Anyone who has never made a mistake, has never tried anything new.” Albert Einstein

  • Quit using the kid sitting next to you in class as a benchmark!

It’s human nature to compare. Seemingly without fail, humans adapt their expectations to fit their surrounding reality. Repeated studies reveal that lottery winners experience a brief jolt of happiness over their first few months of newfound wealth, and then find themselves either back at their previous equilibrium or even lower. It’s easy to let yourself align with the average of what people directly around you are doing. You need to remember however, that these people aren’t your competition (they’re only a small fraction of your competition). Your competition includes people graduating from MIT, Harvard, Yale, & Columbia. Many of them are MBA students. Beyond them, you’re competing with rapidly advancing populations in China and India. It’s easy to see this as a threat, but welcome this as an opportunity: you have the chance to work with the smartest minds in the world, regardless of their origin. So remember, your competition expands past UNCW, and always aim to associate with people smarter than yourself: you’ll learn plenty and it will help keep you humble.

“People only learn through two things. One is reading and the other is association with smarter people.” Will Rogers

  • Read. (I know, I know, but there’s really no way around this one. Sorry.)

I’m guessing half of my audience just left. Two years ago I would have done the same thing. Let’s ignore how awfully similar that sounds to an addict in recovery, and explore why I’ve made this 180 with such conviction.

A broad range of knowledge is going to be a rare, and invaluable talent in my generation. One of our greatest advantages is also one of our greatest burdens: we have access to more information than any previous generation. The problem, is that our constant 24-hour access to this data gives us much less incentive to remember it. In a job setting, this prevents us from connecting the dots of multiple pieces of data, that alone, would mean nothing.

Just Keep Moving!

You are responsible for your own career path. You control where you will go. You control how you get there. This is a lot of responsibility, but it’s an even greater amount of opportunity. You can coast through school, work, & life aiming to meet the bare minimum and avoid criticism. OR You can take pride in your work. You can find a job that you actually enjoy. You can attain fulfillment & meaning from your career. If you ask me, the “easy” path of doing the bare minimum sure seems harder in the long run.

“I have noticed even people who claim everything is predestined, and that we can do nothing to change it, look before they cross the road.” Stephen Hawking

A few important notes:
– I don’t suffer any illusions that I’m being completely original here; much of what I’m recommending is practically cliche it’s been said so many times.
– I try to follow my own advice as much as possible, but I’m far from always being on the right path. I feel like I’m beginning to get a pretty good grasp of what best leads to professional development, but “knowing” and “doing” can be deceptively far apart.
– Feel free to disagree with me on any of this, and please share your thoughts in the comments if you do!

Terry Hayes

Comments

5 responses to “Just Keep Moving – Lessons Learned on the Job Hunt”

  1. Rachel Avatar
    Rachel

    Terry,

    Great post! I totally understand & can relate to the benchmarking part. It’s so easy to get wrapped up in the competitiveness of school in general, but the important thing is that we need to focus on what we as individuals need to become successful.

    This semester I’ve really focused on learning more about writing (grammar, how to write to a certain audience, etc), and I definitely see an improvement from last semester. Instead of getting wrapped up in what other people are doing, doing things for myself has really made me feel more secure in my abilities. I think it’s important focus on individual needs first and worry about what everyone else is doing last. Comparing yourself to people doesn’t help you get anywhere, but doing something to advance your knowledge and skill set does. I guess what I’m trying to say is constructive thinking is important to an individual’s success and it looks like you are on that path!

    -Rachel

  2. Callie Stilwell Avatar
    Callie Stilwell

    I completely agree with the idea that we are in control of our own destiny and career path. I personally came to this realization only about a year ago when I chose to transfer schools. It would have been much more convenient to continue on the path I was on, yet I kept asking myself why I would settle for convenience over happiness. So many people take the first job opportunity they get, and never really think about what will make them the happiest, and most fulfilled. I also agree that “knowing and doing” are very different things, and with practice, the “knowing” eventually turns into habit.

  3. Rick Olsen (Dr. O.) Avatar
    Rick Olsen (Dr. O.)

    Great post Terry. For so many talented people the ability to be good without a lot of effort prevents them from being excellent. That’s part of that comparison issue. The big switch for me was when I started to focus on my principles and processes instead of my results. Yes, I’m getting better grades than the guy next to me. But why am I in college, what is the process of learning doing in me not just for me? Is my approach to this assignment an expression of who I really really want to be? That’s when it becomes a whole new ball game. Confession: it’s hard for me to read too! So, I joined a book club with other chairs. Structure your life to make it easier to pursue your ideals. Rock on!

  4. tchayes Avatar

    Thank you everyone for your comments. It’s always a pleasure to hear your feedback.

    I’m glad to hear that the benchmarking concept resonated with you, Dr. O and Rachel. I think it’s one of the most important steps in maintaining constant professional growth.

  5. Jordan Shook Avatar
    Jordan Shook

    I 100% percent agree with Terry. In todays job market, everyone that applys for a job will probably get a few no’s. You have to keep your head up and keep trucking. On the note of working with other people, it is not always a bad thing. People have differnt ideas, so working with differnt people could end up making a even better idea than working alone.

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